有没有人发现在即越来越宅,宅到对不起父母亲友的地步啊?

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181发表于:2008/2/15 17:38:00


182发表于:2008/2/15 17:39:00

    人民网北京1月18日电?今日发布的《中国青少年网瘾数据报告(2007)》显示,研究生(13.95%)和本专科学生(10.99%)中的网瘾比例都超过了10%,处于较高水平。
    不同职业青少年网瘾分布

      《中国青少年网瘾数据报告(2007)》是中国青少年网络协会继2005年第二次发布中国青少年网瘾数据报告。

      中国青少年网络协会秘书长郝向宏在发布会上说:“对网络成瘾这个问题来说,与学历层次关系不是很大。并而且由于对大学生的管理比较宽松,同龄人之间的互动比较少,再加上就业压力比较大,使得一部分大学生选择借助网络平台来表达、释放自己的感情。因此网瘾比例很高也就不足为奇了。我们希望这个数据能引起教育部门的注意。”(李鼐)


183发表于:2008/2/15 17:50:00

网瘾治疗症状二:
饱食终日,不注意运动整天泡在电脑里。
解决办法:
每周做3-4次增氧健身运动,每次20-30分钟慢跑,散步和骑自行车效果也不错。
网瘾治疗症状三:
在电脑前不停地吃一些如巧克力、比萨饼之类的含热量很高的零食!
解决办法:沉溺于电脑前时多吃一些有利于大脑营养丰富的食品,如苹果卷心菜等!

老娘不想戒网,只想减肥


184||||发表于:2008/2/15 17:52:00

研究生(13.95%)和本专科学生(10.99%)中的网瘾比例都超过了10%,

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原来宅人还都是知识分子

怪不得掐架都不带RS的


185我想去看心理医生发表于:2008/2/15 18:05:00

怕父母担心,但我现在这个状况肯定戒网不了

想去看心理医生,但是我们这种小城市,估计有经验有口碑的专业戒网医生是没有的

而且大学的时候,心理老师说过,心理医生因为有“医生”的头衔,他们习惯性给你开药,药物对人体总有副作用的,还是找心理咨询师比较好,他们很少开药,在心理开导方面做得比较好,可是心理咨询师的价钱都很贵啊!!!


186179楼发表于:2008/2/15 18:06:00

自我诊断那里

我基本上条条都符合

看来病入膏肓了

谁来救救我啊


187诊断发表于:2008/2/15 18:10:00

1、每天起床后情绪低落,头昏眼花,疲乏无力,食欲不振,或神不守舍,而一旦上网便精神抖擞,百“病”全消。 ——食欲挺好= =b 
2、上网时表现得神思敏捷,口若悬河,并感到格外开心,一旦离开网络便语言迟钝,情绪低落,怅然若失。  ——在网上也反应迟钝@@
3、只有不断增加上网时间才能感到满足,从而使得上网时间失控,经常比预定时间长。  ——从来没有“预定”时间
4、无法控制去上网的冲动。  ——这是习惯 ,不是冲动。。。
5、每看到一个新网址就会心跳加快或心率不齐。  ——看到新档会= =|||
6、只要长时间不上网操作就手痒难耐。有时刚刚离网就有又想上网的冲动。有时早晨一起床就有想上网这种欲望。甚至夜间趁小便的空也想打开电脑。 ——出门前一定要开下电脑 
7、不能上网时便感到烦躁不安或情绪低落。  ——是
8、平常有不由自主地敲击键盘的动作,或身体有颤抖的现象。  ——没
9、对家人或亲友隐瞒迷恋因特网的程度。  ——瞒不住了。。。
10、因迷恋因特网而面临失学、失业或失去朋友的危险。   ——毕业了有工作了有很多“亲友”

188想起当初看到的发表于:2008/2/15 18:44:00



November 18, 2007

In Korea, a Boot Camp Cure for Web Obsession

MOKCHEON, South Korea — The compound — part boot camp, part rehab center — resembles programs around the world for troubled youths. Drill instructors drive young men through military-style obstacle courses, counselors lead group sessions, and there are even therapeutic workshops on pottery and drumming.

But these young people are not battling alcohol or drugs. Rather, they have severe cases of what many in this country believe is a new and potentially deadly addiction: cyberspace.

They come here, to the Jump Up Internet Rescue School, the first camp of its kind in South Korea and possibly the world, to be cured.

South Korea boasts of being the most wired nation on earth. In fact, perhaps no other country has so fully embraced the Internet. Ninety percent of homes connect to cheap, high-speed broadband, online gaming is a professional sport, and social life for the young revolves around the “PC bang,” dim Internet parlors that sit on practically every street corner.

But such ready access to the Web has come at a price as legions of obsessed users find that they cannot tear themselves away from their computer screens.

Compulsive Internet use has been identified as a mental health issue in other countries, including the United States. However, it may be a particularly acute problem in South Korea because of the country’s nearly universal Internet access.

It has become a national issue here in recent years, as users started dropping dead from exhaustion after playing online games for days on end. A growing number of students have skipped school to stay online, shockingly self-destructive behavior in this intensely competitive society.

Up to 30 percent of South Koreans under 18, or about 2.4 million people, are at risk of Internet addiction, said Ahn Dong-hyun, a child psychiatrist at Hanyang University in Seoul who just completed a three-year government-financed survey of the problem.

They spend at least two hours a day online, usually playing games or chatting. Of those, up to a quarter million probably show signs of actual addiction, like an inability to stop themselves from using computers, rising levels of tolerance that drive them to seek ever longer sessions online, and withdrawal symptoms like anger and craving when prevented from logging on.

To address the problem, the government has built a network of 140 Internet-addiction counseling centers, in addition to treatment programs at almost 100 hospitals and, most recently, the Internet Rescue camp, which started this summer. Researchers have developed a checklist for diagnosing the addiction and determining its severity, the K-Scale. (The K is for Korea.)

In September, South Korea held the first international symposium on Internet addiction.

“Korea has been most aggressive in embracing the Internet,” said Koh Young-sam, head of the government-run Internet Addiction Counseling Center. “Now we have to lead in dealing with its consequences.”

Though some health experts here and abroad question whether overuse of the Internet or computers in general is an addiction in the strict medical sense, many agree that obsessive computer use has become a growing problem in many countries.

Doctors in China and Taiwan have begun reporting similar disorders in their youth. In the United States, Dr. Jerald J. Block, a psychiatrist at Oregon Health and Science University, estimates that up to nine million Americans may be at risk for the disorder, which he calls pathological computer use. Only a handful of clinics in the United States specialize in treating it, he said.

“Korea is on the leading edge,” Dr. Block said. “They are ahead in defining and researching the problem, and recognize as a society that they have a major issue.”

The rescue camp, in a forested area about an hour south of Seoul, was created to treat the most severe cases. This year, the camp held its first two 12-day sessions, with 16 to 18 male participants each time. (South Korean researchers say an overwhelming majority of compulsive computer users are male.)

The camp is entirely paid for by the government, making it tuition-free. While it is too early to know whether the camp can wean youths from the Internet, it has been receiving four to five applications for each spot. To meet demand, camp administrators say they will double the number of sessions next year.

During a session, participants live at the camp, where they are denied computer use and allowed only one hour of cellphone calls a day, to prevent them from playing online games via the phone. They also follow a rigorous regimen of physical exercise and group activities, like horseback riding, aimed at building emotional connections to the real world and weakening those with the virtual one.

“It is most important to provide them experience of a lifestyle without the Internet,” said Lee Yun-hee, a counselor. “Young Koreans don’t know what this is like.”

Initially, the camp had problems with participants sneaking away to go online, even during a 10-minute break before lunch, Ms. Lee said. Now, the campers are under constant surveillance, including while asleep, and are kept busy with chores, like washing their clothes and cleaning their rooms.

One participant, Lee Chang-hoon, 15, began using the computer to pass the time while his parents were working and he was home alone. He said he quickly came to prefer the virtual world, where he seemed to enjoy more success and popularity than in the real one.

He spent 17 hours a day online, mostly looking at Japanese comics and playing a combat role-playing game called Sudden Attack. He played all night, and skipped school two or three times a week to catch up on sleep.

When his parents told him he had to go to school, he reacted violently. Desperate, his mother, Kim Soon-yeol, sent him to the camp.

“He didn’t seem to be able to control himself,” said Mrs. Kim, a hairdresser. “He used to be so passionate about his favorite subjects” at school. “Now, he gives up easily and gets even more absorbed in his games.”

Her son was reluctant at first to give up his pastime.

“I don’t have a problem,” Chang-hoon said in an interview three days after starting the camp. “Seventeen hours a day online is fine.” But later that day, he seemed to start changing his mind, if only slightly.

As a drill instructor barked orders, Chang-hoon and 17 other boys marched through a cold autumn rain to the obstacle course. Wet and shivering, Chang-hoon began climbing the first obstacle, a telephone pole with small metal rungs. At the top, he slowly stood up, legs quaking, arms outstretched for balance. Below, the other boys held a safety rope attached to a harness on his chest.

“Do you have anything to tell your mother?” the drill instructor shouted from below.

“No!” he yelled back.

“Tell your mother you love her!” ordered the instructor.

“I love you, my parents!” he replied.

“Then jump!” ordered the instructor. Chang-hoon squatted and leapt to a nearby trapeze, catching it in his hands.

“Fighting!” yelled the other boys, using the English word that in South Korea means the rough equivalent of “Don’t give up!”

After Chang-hoon descended, he said, “That was better than games!”

Was it thrilling enough to wean him from the Internet?

“I’m not thinking about games now, so maybe this will help,” he replied. “From now on, maybe I’ll just spend five hours a day online.”


中国不知道有没有……

189= =发表于:2008/2/15 18:48:00

其实我们这样刷XQ和某些人沉迷网游一样吧...囧..我一直很BS沉迷网游的人的。。觉得好无聊。。。

现在自己也这样了


190好的建议发表于:2008/2/15 18:52:00

报名新东方之类培训班

大雪那段时间报了个班

半天的时间都在上课

因为交了钱不去觉得很亏 而且老师也挺有意思所以就没像学校里一样逃课

虽然每天起床 冒着风雪上下学的时候都脾气很燥

但是结果是不错的 2个星期都起了早床而且还有好好学

其实关键就是无法自控啊TOT

就得别人逼着才行


191那个发表于:2008/2/15 19:12:00

其实我觉得很对不起我爸妈的

每次回家都只呆自己房间上网

只有在吃饭时飘出去一下

吃完又飘进去了,直到睡觉

和爸妈一天的说话从来不到30句的

我妈有次和我说,我爸对我妈说,这孩子一回来就上网,也不和我们说话的

我听了就心理很难过

可又不知道和他们聊什么好

诶,真的觉得很对不起他们的。


192= =发表于:2008/2/15 19:20:00

其实我觉得很对不起我爸妈的

每次回家都只呆自己房间上网

只有在吃饭时飘出去一下

吃完又飘进去了,直到睡觉

和爸妈一天的说话从来不到30句的

我妈有次和我说,我爸对我妈说,这孩子一回来就上网,也不和我们说话的

我听了就心理很难过

可又不知道和他们聊什么好

诶,真的觉得很对不起他们的。

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排,我也是。。。但我是大学后才这样。。

高中时会和爸妈吃饭啊抱怨学校里的事

到了大学就完全没话讲了=v= 因为实在没什么事可以讲ORZ


193= =发表于:2008/2/15 19:27:00

这孩子一回来就上网,也不和我们说话的

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我也是?

我想和他们说话 可转了好几圈也不知道说什么

反而和年龄已经很大的姨妈可以说话 好rp


194裙子控发表于:2008/2/15 19:45:00

依我收到货之后判断,绝对不是大S那件,这件很薄,穿上去连内衣的颜色都看见,还能看见皮肤的颜色,但是只要穿一件背心内衣就可以解决了。而且这件衣服可能是偏小的,大家看看图片,都是穿起来很宽松的,而我身高161,体重50kg,那束胸的上半部分设计得比实际高了一点点,我只能束三分二的胸,看起来怪怪的。图片上的是束腰的,我变了束胸了。基本上衣服没什么问题,建议比较娇小的穿着。

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看见这个评价……拔草了


195= =发表于:2008/2/15 19:46:00

喷LS。。。。

196裙子控发表于:2008/2/15 19:47:00

T? T我错搂了


197来说说发表于:2008/2/15 20:58:00

怎么改变现状吧~

去年暑假去爬山后感觉好很多,结果一回学校又开始宅了,原来学校就是那万宅之源啊~

今年寒假常常到附近公园喝茶看书晒太阳,仿佛效果不错

不过我乃还是要早些毕业脱离学校才能彻底改变宅的现状啊


198= =发表于:2008/2/15 21:01:00

今年寒假常常到附近公园喝茶看书晒太阳,仿佛效果不错

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很修身。。。很冷。。。。


199裙子控发表于:2008/2/15 21:25:00

我现在是天天期待回学校……

回去了生活就正常了><

不过好冷,又不愿意走


200--发表于:2008/2/15 21:59:00

以前人缘挺好的

宅了之后都不知道怎么去交新朋友了

总觉得那些个人和我活在不同的世界

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完全是我现在脑子里的想法啊


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